Mbongeni Ngema’s Widow, Nompulelo Emotional Eulogy

Mbongeni Ngema, the celebrated playwright, singer, and actor, was honored with joyful music and dance at his funeral.

During the emotional proceedings, a heartfelt letter was read by Vusimuzi Gumede on behalf of Ngema’s widow, Nompulelo. She expressed disbelief and sorrow at the news of his passing, describing it as a painful reality she struggled to accept.

In her poignant words, Nompulelo conveyed the difficulty of facing a future without seeing Mbongeni walk through the door. She emphasized that the days following his unexpected demise confirmed the harsh reality.

The letter further reflected on the 17 years of dedication Ngema gave to their union. It acknowledged him not just as a husband but as a best friend and mentor.

Nompulelo considered him the central force holding everything together for her. Despite being a legend to many, Ngema remained, in her eyes, a beloved husband. The letter concluded with a heartfelt expression of gratitude, thanking Mbongeni for his love and the profound impact he had on her life.

The memorial service took place at the Inkosi Albert Luthuli International Convention Centre Arena in Durban.

The event was designated a special Provincial Official Funeral Category 2. It drew notable figures such as ex-wife Leleti Khumalo, Police Minister Bheki Cele, poet Mzwakhe Mbuli, politician Zweli Mkhize, singer Yvonne Chaka Chaka, and Ladysmith Black Mambazo, among others.